Husband, The Helper; Wife The Boss?

We women sometimes are very demanding with our husbands. And husbands are very kind to do what we want or help us out with anything like in the house, about the car, money, etc. But sometimes we seems to be bossy towards them that we don't even realize it until they tell us so. We may not have the intention to be bossy but we women are always occupied with stuff that needs to be done. So when the husband is around, we would ask help for one thing and surprisingly we keep asking to help us more with something else. We may sound bossy while they're helping because we are particular, specific and detailed with the kind of help we need from them. It's funny but it's true.